{"id":3379,"date":"2017-04-11T15:00:47","date_gmt":"2017-04-11T12:00:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/chatzistefanou.gr\/your-brain-wants-to-think-negative-don-t-allow-it\/"},"modified":"2017-04-11T15:00:47","modified_gmt":"2017-04-11T12:00:47","slug":"your-brain-wants-to-think-negative-don-t-allow-it","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/chatzistefanou.gr\/en\/your-brain-wants-to-think-negative-don-t-allow-it\/","title":{"rendered":"Your brain wants to think negative &#8211; don\u2019t allow it"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>This causes the brain to waste energy looking for things to worry about and contributes to a &#8220;culture of negativity&#8221; that&#8217;s especially evident among groups of people.<\/p>\n<p>How do you counteract that? Be the most positive person in the room, and watch how it impacts your business, he said. Just don&#8217;t be surprised if you see pushback to that upbeat outlook.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;If I receive a call from a number I don&#8217;t recognize, I always answer with a big smile and say, &#8216;It&#8217;s a great day; this is Roger.&#8217; I just love the mixed reaction I get,&#8221; he said. &#8220;It&#8217;s about 50-50. For about half the people, I can tell that my answer brightened their day. Then the other half, well, I can just hear them getting irritated. &#8216;Great day? Maybe for you. What are you so happy about?&#8217; It&#8217;s nothing to get upset about, but you do need to prevent this kind of reaction from draining your energy&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p>Need help conjuring your positivity? In his 2015 MDRT Annual Meeting presentation, Shawn Achor recommended three effective habits to boost happiness:<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; Think of three new things you&#8217;re grateful for every day.<br \/>&#8211; Do 15 minutes of cardio every day.<br \/>&#8211; Write a two-minute email praising or thanking a person you know. &#8220;If you do this for three days in a row, you&#8217;ll become addicted to it,&#8221; Achor said. &#8220;This increases your social connections, and social connections are the greatest predictor of success&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p>[<a href=\"http:\/\/www.imdrt.org\/blog\/brain-wants-think-negative-dont-allow\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">imdrt.org<\/a>]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Take a moment and think about how your brain operates. Do you pay more attention to positive things or negative ones? To which do you and your clients react more expressively?&nbsp;Most people have a tendency to focus on the negative, said Roger Seip, an experienced speaker on maximizing the capability of the brain, in his 2014 MDRT Annual Meeting presentation &#8220;Train your brain for success&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" style=\"display: block; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;\" src=\"images\/positivethoughts.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"347\" height=\"204\" \/><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[31],"tags":[],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO Premium plugin v16.4 (Yoast SEO v16.4) - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>Your brain wants to think negative - don\u2019t allow it - Kyriakos Chatzistefanou<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/chatzistefanou.gr\/en\/your-brain-wants-to-think-negative-don-t-allow-it\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_US\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Your brain wants to think negative - don\u2019t allow it - Kyriakos Chatzistefanou\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"Take a moment and think about how your brain operates. 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